Getting Your Finances Ready For Baby

So you are having a baby or maybe this is your second baby. While this is definitely one of the biggest changes of your life from an emotional and physical standpoint, it also impacts your finances. As if you don’t have enough to worry about! Just taking a few steps and making some financial preparations will only help you after the baby comes.

Family Finance Handbook: Discovering The Blessings Of Financial Freedom by Frank Damazio, Rich Brott With insights gained from twenty-five years in business and ministry, the authors lead you through the book using biblical principles of stewardship and financial management. They show you how to get out of debt and guide you carefully through the investing process. Family Finance Handbook shows you how to develop a right perspective, especially relating to your value system, priorities, vision, personal goals, and lifestyle.

It’s never too early to start your spending plan and budget. Items are definitely going to cost more than you think they will. Who knew formula would be at least $22 a can and that a baby can go through 2-3 cans a week? Some additional items to think about when redoing your budget: medical insurance, childcare, food, furniture, clothing, and toys. Ask your friends with children what they are spending to get a rough idea of how much things cost in your area. Instead of thinking about how much you are going to give up, think instead about setting priorities on what is important to spend. So maybe you won’t be traveling as much but you still want to get your hair done. If your family is considering a loss of income, this is especially important! Go over your spending plan regularly, at least once a month.

There are a few key financial papers you need to think about, your will and life insurance. Updating (or creating a will) can be one of the toughest decisions you and your family will have to make. It’s not just about changing the beneficiary but deciding who would be the trustee in case anything happens to you. In addition to thinking about who would be the best person to raise your child, you have to decide who the most fiscally responsible person is too!

Money Came by the House the Other Day: A Guide to Christian Financial Planning and Stories of Stewardship by Robert W. Katz, Jamie Katz "This is a practical, common sense handbook that every Christian should have. I heartily recommend [it]" by Ronald E. Cottle, Ph.D., Ed.D., President, Christian Life School of Theology, Columbus, GA

While life insurance isn’t the most exciting thing to think about it, it has to be done. Having a baby is one of those times to make sure you have enough life insurance. Schedule a few appointments with agents to make sure you getting the right type of life insurance (term or whole life) as well. Visit www.accuquote.com to learn more about life insurance.

Finally, don’t forget about your retirement. With more and more women staying-at-home or working part-time, your retirement plan often gets forgotten with everything else going on. Next thing you know, you haven’t been saving for more than five years and you have been missing out on precious compound interest. You can always use the money for your child’s college education. Remember, children weren’t raised in a day and your finances can take a few months to iron out the kinks as well. Just take it month by month and enjoy the newest member of your household.

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How to Build, Manage & Maintain Wealth

You’ve tried making more money. You’ve tried cutting back on expenses. You’ve tried borrowing and consolidating. You’ve tried some sure-fire quick fixes. You’ve denied the situation and justified it because others are in the same situation or worse. And besides, when the kids move out, go to school, or you give up the house for a condo, there will be more money and you’ll have two incomes again!

Retire Sooner, Retire Richer : How to Build and Manage Wealth to Last a Lifetime by Frank L. Netti This book answer important concerns on these matters, including: Is a financial planner necessary? How can I design an effective, personal pension plan? How can I be certain that my savings will last my lifetime? What kinds of insurance options do I have?

If you have more debt, not including your mortgage, than you could pay off in three months—yes, three months!! If you have refinanced or consolidated once already and think it’s time again, or you have lived in your house longer than five years and your mortgage balance is still the same or larger, you know it’s time to do something different. But what? You have already tried everything you can think of and your lifestyle can’t squeeze anymore out. There are no magic bullets, but there are some solid steps you can take to create lasting solutions and to move away from financial struggle, overwhelm, and guilt towards freedom, security and significance.

There are three phases of our financial lives: wealth creation, wealth management and wealth distribution. These are not age driven or dollar driven phases. They are also not mutually exclusive. You don’t suddenly say “I’m moving into wealth management now.” And just because you’re working primarily in wealth creation doesn’t mean you ignore the aspects of wealth management and wealth distribution. The foundational principles, habits and knowledge all begin with wealth creation. So when you’ve tried everything you can think of, or when you feel stuck, you go to these foundational skills and principles—regardless of your age or acquired wealth. The number might have more zeros and the impact might extend beyond simply you and your immediate family—but the principles are the same.

Phase One: Wealth Accumulation
First: You need to enlist the help of a professional. However, that’s not as easy as making an appointment at the bank; or arranging a meeting with an investment advisor, insurance agent, accountant or lawyer. Your professional advisor needs to be able to provide you with advice on your entire financial picture and make suggestions based on a variety of reference points (lending, tax, cash flow, investing, business, insurance, etc.). Furthermore, they need to be able to work with you over a period of three to twelve months—perhaps with weekly, semi-monthly or monthly contact as you implement some changes into your finances and your lifestyle. You need to be prepared to pay someone for their help and their professional, unbiased expertise.

Second: You need to commit to a program that will take some work and will take some time. It will involve doing some things that might seem tedious and insignificant, but you must be able to commit to a process that will build a solid foundation, develop new skills and expand your knowledge of wealthy habits. How long this process takes will depend on you, but to implement this phase of financial planning is likely a year-long process—maybe more. Beyond building your foundation, you then need to commit to learning how to build wealth and that might take a few years to get started, and obviously maintenance is a lifelong process.

The third step to moving towards significance and away from overwhelm is to begin to implement strategies according to a logical sequence. The sequence starts with baby steps in the first phase, which is to develop habits, skills and strategies to effectively build a financial plan from which you can maintain, develop and sustain. The following process assumes you are starting from scratch in phase one, but it is important to review even if you feel like your questions are all about passing on your wealth and using if for a higher purpose:

• There is no judgment, remorse or blame—where you are is where you start!
• You need written goals and you need to know why they are important to you. Get a journal and start writing. If you would like an assisted journal contact us at www.moneyminding.com for more information.
• You need to document where you are today, with emphasis on the specific details of your income and expenses by tracking:
  
  a. Every item you spend money on for three months or more. How? Carry a notebook, ask for a receipt or get creative, but you need to be specific—no judging—just the facts.
  
  b. Learn to balance your cheque book. Even if you don’t write cheques you will have transactions from your account. Balancing your books is a skill that you will use throughout your financial life with business accounting, investment statements and personal financial statements. It might seem tedious, but you can’t expect to begin the habit when you have millions of dollars to manage. It’s something that starts small and builds.
  
• As best as you can, use CASH! Studies show that using plastic, even if paid off monthly, will produce an average of 35% higher expenses. Why? Because it’s easy. Individual expenditures fall within comfortable limits and you don’t have to pre-calculate your expected needs when you’re trying to determine your cash requirements. Withdrawing cash in advance will have the advantage of forcing a mini-budget calculation. Furthermore, using cash will enable you to set up specific savings programs that you can’t do with plastic purchases (see below).
• Establish banking that enables you to transfer money easily to meet specific needs. The type of bank accounts need not necessarily be with a bank, they can be short-term investment accounts, or special places for saving cash as mentioned above.
  
  a. At a minimum you will need one chequing account and one savings account. A savings account is not the same as an investment account. Savings are for specific purposes, investments are for longer term needs, where your money is expected to be working for you. You might also consider a dedicated account specifically for plastic, electronic transactions.
  
  b. Whenever a deposit is made, your first two transactions (and entries into your cheque book) are an amount for savings and an amount for giving. I recommend immediately transferring 10% of the deposit to your savings account and withdrawing 10% in cash for giving. Giving can be for gifts, causes you believe in, charities, churches, etc. The key is to take this money in cash. If you find that you get to the end of the month and you need some extra money to pay the bills, the first amount to come back into your chequing account is the necessary amount from savings. If you still need more, you will have to take some of your cash and deposit it back into the bank – a much harder task. If you consistently develop these habits, you may find that after a few months the amount transferring back isn’t the full amount transferred to savings in the first place. You can learn more about these cash management strategies from a variety of articles and programs at www.moneyminding.com.
  
• Assign categories to your spending and begin to make informed decisions that will help you come up with a budget that is designed to meet your planned expenditures. A budget will let you feel spontaneous in your spending because you will know that the funds are available. There won’t be any questions, guilt, or uncertainty about your spending because you can pre-plan to facilitate unplanned expenses.
• Establish a regular routine and schedule for you to handle financial matters. This involves not only taking time to plan, track, budget, analyze and monitor; but also, to discuss situations with your spouse or partner. Businesses have regular board meetings, they have dedicated functions to handle these tasks; and they would surely not function efficiently without giving finances and planning a key role in the business. How can we expect to operate our homes giving only minimal attention to these important tasks? We need to value the tasks, habits and skills necessary to produce and manage millions of dollars before we actually have the money.

Phase Two: Wealth Management
The skills learned in Phase One are expanded because savings has accumulated and investment decisions are necessary. Perhaps budget planning has expanded options for income generation, and you are earning more. The key to this phase is that it isn’t something you necessarily do after all the steps in Phase One of wealth management. They have to be learned along the way at the same time. The essential components here are a focus on income effectiveness and efficiency, managing risks, investing for regular, stable income; and then adding a growth component and increasing risks as your overall financial situation and personal comfort grow. Throughout this stage a focus on minimizing taxes and implementing loss protection plans is fundamental.

Phase Three: Wealth Distribution
Again, this isn’t something that happens after the other phases. Distribution expands on the skills, and strategies that have been put in place in the previous two areas with a focus now on ensuring that your wealth is helping you focus on your top priorities, and is being used to fulfill purposes and causes for which you believe. This phase also ensures that your legacy is planned and not left hap-hazard. It’s about pulling everything together into a tidy package so your wealth can now benefit others as well as it has yourself. Insurance strategies, planned chartable giving, corporate tax structures, trusts, wills and estate planning programs are all integrated in the wealth distribution phase.

This entire three-phase program might sound overly simple – and it is, sort of. It all starts with a vision and some written goals and a commitment to do whatever it takes to see it through. Believe ~ Begin ~ Become all that you can. Don’t let your questions and uncertainty with how and what to do stop you from living your life!

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Can Your Family Live On A Single Income?

Many families dream of having one parent stay at home to raise the kids. The idyllic picture of having mom (or dad) home, taking care of the kids, cooking great meals, keeping a beautiful home, is hard to resist.

It's also incredibly difficult financially.

However, in many cases it can be done. And with practice the sacrifices you make may not seem so bad. You will probably take fewer vacations, and they'll be simpler. You will probably eat out less often. You will probably buy fewer things. If you and your family can live with that, you will probably be able to cope.

Provided that you can make the remaining income stretch to cover your necessities. You need to look at this to make an informed decision. Here are some steps to take.

• Collect 3 months' worth of pay stubs from the person whose income your family will be relying on. Use this to calculate your average monthly income.
• Collect 3 months' worth of bills. If you like, you can separate this into more or less fixed bills, which are things such as rent/mortgage payments, water bills, electrical bills and so forth, versus other expenses such as groceries. In any case you need an average of what you are paying out every month.
• Subtract your average monthly expenses from the average monthly single income. Will it work?

If not, don't despair. There are often areas you can cut. When you have two incomes it is easy to spend more than you absolutely have to.

You can start with monthly bills. Do you really need cable television? What about having both cell phones and landline phones? Perhaps your family could get by with just one or the other.

Now look at the other things you spend money on monthly, but don't come in the form of bills. Can you cut that grocery bill down? Do you tend to buy more clothing or new electronic gadgets you don't need? What bad shopping habits do you have? Can you give up Starbucks?

Try to work out a budget that will work with the money you would have as a single income family. Then before you are actually a single income family, try living on it. Put the extra into savings. It makes a nice cushion for if things don't work out and for when those extra bills that you really can't plan for hit.

It takes time to learn to live on a single income. It is very possible for many families. It takes planning, both in terms of finances and in terms of what is expected from each person, but it is highly doable. And having the ability to have one parent there for the kids is just a delight.

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